Human Connection Transformation is the ultimate coaching specialty

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Since the creation of professional Life Coaching in the mid-1990’s, there have been a few coaching specialties that are highly valued:

• Business / Entrepreneurship
• Solo Business / Branding
• Leadership / Executive
• Career / Management
• Culture Change / Team
• Personal Growth / Transitions

With the Human Connection Transformation Coaching Method you can become a highly valued power-house in ANY of these areas.

You will literally have a world of possibility all around you.

Why?

Because,

A) All of the popular coaching specialties require Human Connection SKILLS!

B) ALL people are yearning for more / better Human Connections

C) Almost every human problem – and there are a LOT of them – are disappeared, rather than solved, with better Human Connection.

Yeah… IT’S BIG!

Learning these Concepts, SKILLS and Techniques will accelerate you into Professional Coaching or Transformational Leadership. You will be positioned to lead and enjoy an Egalitarian Coaching Culture that you co-create with the people around you; rather than struggling to maintain Hierarchical Control. (UGH)

Together we can uplift Human Nature and Human Connection and co-create a better world for EVERYONE.

Learn the Techniques of Transformation Coaching…
Become a Master Guide for the Human Journey!

I am so excited to share about this program with you.

On this page I am going to share with you a few ideas and details to get you energized! And hopefully you will SAY: “YES” and join us.

In case you haven’t seen this on another page, here is our philosophy of Human Connection Transformation Coaching.

1. An Epic, Personal, Egalitarian Relationship

2. for Guided Practice of SKILLSETS

3. and Playful Co-creation of MINDSETS

4. to Facilitate Transformation

5. For the Player’s Dream and a Better World for EVERYONE

As a Human Connection Transformation Coach…

YOU will guide people to transform their Awesome Human Nature into Human Connection Power SKILLS! (This is how they get their power back)

YOU are a champion of Dreams… beloved by many.

YOU light the pathway out of the darkness of hierarchical control toward the light of egalitarian freedom.

YOU are EPIC! You are the one people remember… forever.

YOU unleash the goodness of Human Nature within everyone you coach… and a lot of people you touch through the Ripple Effect.

YOU are having the most fun ever!!!!

In just 12 class sessions you will learn how to do this!

Let’s explore together.

Transform Your Life as a Player and a Coach / Leader

In the Human Connection Transformation Coaching class you will learn how to guide a journey of transformation!

You will be BOTH a player with a Dream and a Coach who champions Dreams.

Here are a few examples of transformation you will explore…

From: “life is a job of tasks” framework we learned in school and the workplace.

TO: – Life is a Human Connection Adventure that you play in the world around you.

From: Control

To: Co-Create

The long version:

From: Managing your life, staying in control & completing tasks in isolation

To: Loving your life, growing your SKILLS and co-creating your Heart’s Dream with people you enjoy

Transform Your Life as a Coach / Leader

From: Hierarchical ~ Trying to control or fix the problems of the Human Condition.

To: Egalitarian ~ Uplifting the awesome Human Connection Power SKILLS of each person.

​What you will learn in the Human Connection Transformation Program…

Human Connection Transformation Coaching is a METHOD. It is a robust collection of philosophy, concepts, models, techniqes and skills!

You will learn…

BY PLAYING and PRACTICING!

How to guide a Dream Activation Session which you can use to enroll potential players. This session is so empowering, provocative and fun that you don’t even need to “sell”. They just WANT to sign up with you.

How to guide a transformational coaching session. (the 7 stages)

How to guide a transformational journey of 12 Sessions.

Three Transformation Models

• Human Nature Superpowers to transform into SKILLS
• Human Connection SKILLS for Social Play
• Human Journey with a Coach

Three Transformation Techniques

and when/how to use them!

• Peak Experience Technique
• Role Play Technique
• Embody the Dream Technique

Ten Coaching Super SKILLS

• Dream Sharing
• Permission Space
• Coaching Presence
• Plan – Imagine possibilities
• Play – Co-Create Moments
• Grow – Evaluate Feedback
• Curiosity Questions
• Triplex Listening
• Self-Trust Sharing
• Go Deep for Awareness

Coaching Language (that potential players can relate to!)

The Spirit of Play and Play language set coaching apart from every other approach to Human Achievement. When you focus your sessions on playing big for a dream with SKILLS practice, you will never be confused with another type of professional. If your aim is to become a Professional Transformation Coach, this is essential for you. 

If anyone ever asks you: “what is the difference between coaching and therapy?”… YOU WILL BE READY WITH STUNNING CLARITY AND CONFIDENCE!

SO MUCH FUN! 

In the Zoom class you will experience a lively combination of large and small group conversations and 1-1 practice dyads. At CoachVille we learn by practicing together!! You will meet classmates from all around the world.

*This course qualifies for 24 live Coach Training ICF CCEUs; 12 2-hour sessions

** This course is the starting place for the Center for Coaching Mastery Certification Program

Team Play for Transformation!

How you learn is just as important as WHAT you learn.

We organize everything so that you AND your players are empowered to be powerful co-creators of the coaching experience.

We provide you with amazing resources to share with your players. This enables you to provide a comprehensive program for your players from Day 1.

Player Resources (You share these with your players via the CoachVille App) And YOU learn from them too.

Player Playbook – Walks through the life expanding concepts and techniques used in each coaching session from the player perspective

Player Prep Audio – walks through the concepts and techniques used in each coaching session in a 30-minute audio. 

Playsheets – A visually attractive way to take a few notes from each session and track progress through the program.

Coaching Session Audio – Recordings of a complete set of Coaching sessions that follow the same journey. These empower you and your player to know “how to be” in each coaching session. And they empower you to learn by observing!

The CoachVille App! – We have a private group within the App for all of the players with a CoachVille Human Connection Transformation Coach. All of the resources are there AND they can engage as part of a community of support and profound belonging!

Additional Coach Resources (you don’t share these with your players 😉

Coach Playbook – Walks through concepts and techniques from the coach’s perspective

Coaching Guides – Walks you through the entire session word-for-word. This is like the sheet music for the coaching session “song”. This is the rapid path to confident coaching while you are learning.

From coaching transactions to Human Journey

Most Coach Education Programs teach you how to conduct a coaching session in a transactional way.

Our BIG idea is that an egalitarian coaching relationship develops on a shared Human Journey, RATHER than a collection of coaching transactions or a coaching service.

With this in mind we design every program as a journey that you guide with your players. And we provide you with amazing resources to share with them so that they become equal co-creators. 

Here is an example of a “playsheet” with the first 6 sessions of the Human Connection Transformation Coaching Journey. I use these sheets with every player I coach.

From Version 1 Coaching to Human Connection Transformation

If you have been around the coaching space or possibly had a coach at some point you may recognize this.

Version 1 Life Coaching from the 1990’s I refer to as AAA Coaching.
Awareness -> Action Plan ->Accountability

The idea was to talk, talk, talk, until there is new awareness.

Then talk, talk, talk some more to create an action plan.

Then the client goes out into the world alone to complete their actions while the coach “holds them accountable”.

This style of coaching was, for sure, better than working alone. But, it was missing a few BIG elements of what next generation coaching is all about, specifically: playful co-creation, guided practice and community support.

The BIG question is what and how do we practice? We will get to that in a moment.

From controlling problems to Unleash Human nature

In Version 1 coaching, each transactional session started with a “Topic” that the client presents for discussion. This was usually a goal or situation but usually it was a problem.

Then you would talk about the problem, mostly to figure out how to get IT under control; or get another person or yourself under control.

The BIG Breakthrough in Human Connection Transformation is that control is the cause of our problems, NOT the solution.

We Humans are BORN FREE. So being put under control – at home, school and jobs – causes us a LOT of problems.

To live our Dreams, RATHER than control or fix our flaws, we need to UNLEASH our Human Nature and transform it into Human Connection Super SKILLS!

The outcome… both you AND your players will be uplifted, co-creative and FREE!

From Isolated Actions to Practice Human Connection

When you play life with human connection, there are SO MANY coachable moments! The big breakthrough in HCTC is that Human Connection Super SKILLS are Coach-Able.

A coach-able moment is any time you can get better at something with a better strategy, better energy alignment or better skill. In the model you see our collection of Human Connection  Super Skills.

Our Dreams nudge us out into the social world to:

Create ideas that will inspire others and then SHARE them.

Explore for Visibility (to get out there) and then INVITE people into a relationship.

Relate for Influence (to build trust and credibility) and then OFFER to do something together.

Co-Create with them an Inspiring experience and then ENROLL them to be a part of your world for a while.

Play for Transformation in pursuit of a shared dream with our companions is what companies, communities and causes are all about!

EVERY ONE of these activities can be practiced! 

EVERY Human endeavor that involves “other people”, will rely upon these essential Human Connection SKILLS. SKILLS that most people are NOT confident in… UNTIL THEY HIRE YOU!!!!!!!

The Flow of a Coaching Session

Here you see an example of a coaching model. We have a bunch of these! They make coaching easy to learn and practice.

While every coaching session is unique and has a purpose in the guided journey, there is a 7-stage flow, or a structure, to each session.

Using this structure facilitates both you and your players feeling at ease and confident.

The formula for magic: a little bit of structure and a LOT of imagination.

As you master this flow you will gain confidence that every session will have unique value for your players.

In our program you will get a dazzling playbook with all of the models that you can print for easy reference.

Awesome Coaching Notes Playsheets

Here you see the Coaching Notes Sheet for session #1: Dream Activation.

Going back to the flow of the coaching session for a moment…

EVERY session in the journey has a beautiful playsheet with icons and keywords to guide you AND your player through the journey.

Notice the #’s 1-7 that mark the 7-stage flow of the session.

Think of these sheets as the sheet music for your coaching session so both you and your player can be “on the same song sheet”.

Each session has a detailed coaching guide with the details of what to share and questions to ask. This allows you to be awesome from the very first session.

AND… after you practice each session a few times, you won’t need the coaching guide and you can lead the session by following the playsheets. This is how you make each session your own by adding your own unique flare.

How to Practice Human Connection SKILLS

Here you see the Peak Experience Technique Sheet.

With this technique we use imagination and body awareness to practice ANY social situation or Human Connection SKILL. Bringing attention to BOTH what the player wants to do and feel, AND the desire for the OTHER person to feel and do.

Remember, it is a social situation, NOT a task, so there is another person – or group of people – in the scene.

You are going to love this technique.

In this program you will learn a collection of techniques to guide practice of Human Connection Skills and situations. Including Peak Experience, Role Play, and Embody the Dream.

Each technique has a beautiful playsheet that you AND your players will have to make them easy to learn and practice.

Remember, we share almost everything with our players so that they can be empowered co-creators of the session with us.

And here is a juicy idea to consider:

What if the purpose of our Dreams is to co-create peak experiences with people we enjoy rather than completing tasks in isolation?

Human Connection SKILLS “disapears” Problems…

So you might be thinking…I love this idea of Human Connection and facilitating growth with SKILLS practice… but people have so many problems!!

SO TRUE!

People hire a Life coach for essentially two reasons:

.1. To Pursue Their Dreams and Aspirations (by growing their SKILLS)

.2. To Solve Their Problems in a New Way

I want to share with you a provocative idea.

Coaching is NOT an intervention for problems. As a coach you are a champion of Dreams and SKILLS, NOT a fixer.

However, you will have a huge, positive impact on people’s problems when you coach up their Human Connection SKILLS.

Here is the provocative idea: almost all human problems are caused by the Industrial Culture of Control and Neglect of Human Nature and Human Connection; especially in Command-Control-Compliance Hierarchies.

In this program you will discover the “Treasure Map of Problems” including: stress, depression, procrastination, self-doubt, loneliness, addiction, oversized EGO, frustration, self-sabotage, disharmony, the “Beast” AKA negative inner voice, anxiety and bullying.

Whew! What have we done to each other?

Usually when we attempt to “fix” or “heal” one of these problems, we try to get some situation, or some part of us, “under control”.

But control is the cause of these problems, NOT the solution.

Human Connection IS… the solution

Here is the magic: by restoring and coaching up a person’s Human Connection SKILLS they discover and unleash the goodness of Human Nature…

This is “HEALING” and … Most of these problems slowly disappear.

This leads to true, long-lasting transformation.

AWWWW Yeah!!!

AND… when you (the coach) are not focused on fixing people’s problems all day, your days are WAAYYYY more joyful. That is a FACT!

​How To Register

The Human Connection Transformation Coach Education program is included in our Coach Foundation program.

The investment is $2,000.

Simply reach out to our team. 
by phone: 866-548-6516
by email: cxo @ coachville.com

And we will get you set up!

You will get access to the complete program in Self-Paced format right away. And we will get you registered for the next zoom session that meets your schedule.

Sharing Experiences Amplifies Community Growth

An essential part of every CV class is the CoachVille App where students share about learning concepts, playing for their own dream AND they share about their coaching experiences.

The Community amplifies learning and facilitates a robust experience of belonging.

I pulled out some shares of students talking about their experiences in coaching and playing.

We recommend that you recruit 3 players from your world to coach every week while you are in class. (just like these students did)
YES, you can do it AND we will provide some guidance.

CoachVille is a “learn by doing” school! (also quite rebellious since many schools don’t require you to coach anyone while you are in class which actually makes no sense to us)

Coach Don Eash shares his experiences

Thanks Coach…

My players are all in the tech field, so I got a thank you text!  One of my players is having an issue with letting go and procrastination which we’ve been playing with.  He made a bold move and got rid of several old grills that were cluttering up his yard after our last call and his text said “Thank you for helping me see what was really going on with the grills!  They’re gone and my wife is a happy camper!”.  Can’t beat that 🙂

Playing with FEAR on the Hero’s Journey…

VICTORY!  I had a pile of resistance as I was working with my now ex-accounting firm, but I played through it and got the outcome I desired (and deserved).  They certainly put up a LOT of roadblocks and my fears around asking for what I need or want (much less pushing back hard) were put to the test.  Playing with this fear has been extremely eye opening!

Player’s getting into action…

Got an awesome note from one of my Players this morning!  She thanked me for helping her get to a place where she could take action on a plan she had been putting off for 18 months.  She’s going BIG!

Coach Sandi Silva shares her experiences

Shared success with her dyad partner

My Partner in my class just had a very big win. She went to a coaching seminar and her partner in the audience asked her what she did.  She told him she was a life coach and he asked her to coach him.  She had been practicing her ask in role play and this was a big win for her !!

I believe that during our role plays I helped my player find her voice to be less nervous and more prepared to ask and get the yes answer she deserves.

Learning from experience…

My experience of purpose, presence and permission lead to profound belonging … because if you can find out what the other persons purpose is, be present for them, fully present and use permission to engage with them to ask questions and help make suggestions you should be able to connect on a profound level.

Coach Kianna Wilson shares her experiences

The power of play!

I’ve been purposefully playing my game this week and instead of simply stating my desired results, I challenged myself to take specific action and explore the resistance. I am happy to report that a potential client has surfaced as a result. What I learned from this experience is that I need to get out my head and play more!

Thanks Coach…

My player sent me a thank you for assisting her with identifying the aspects of her career that brought the most joy and satisfaction. I challenged the player to keep a log of her workplace experiences and the energy surrounding them. She shared that this activity was insightful and she was positive about the actions needed to move forward. She commended me on giving her the space to explore.

Becoming a co-creator

I learned that I create a sense of profound belonging for my players by being vulnerable. As a result, my player shared that she always look forward to the observations I share because she knows I truly want the best for her and she feels like we are a team. This was great feedback for me to receive.

Coach Deborah Benoliel shares her experiences

Thanks Coach!

This morning I received the first real “Thank you Coach” from my player. After the amazing session with role play was over, she took a long three minutes to explain me why she was so grateful for our sessions and collaborative work.

She gave me a big thank you which felt truly meaningful.

It was so awesome for me to hear!

Insights from class…

The distinction between meaningful actions and tasks wasn’t necessarily obvious to me at first glance and the reference of us coming out of the industrial age and entering the connected age really helped me figure it out.

It’s a powerful thing to understand that in order to really make a difference, an impact on others and open up to new opportunities, you need to attach meaning to your actions. Setting an intention, having the big picture in mind of what your big dream is, is what makes the difference.

Listening to the Player Maile Sessions…

There’s two parts I truly enjoyed: 1. When player Maile showcased great awareness on the fact that she had focused her game only on one of the Why’s and lacked a global vision of her Big Dream in its entirety.

She had mastered one portion of her Big Why: her vision for her brand and her tribe but totally overlooked the other portion of her Big Why: the finances.

Great lesson to learn: in your journey towards your Big Dream, having a global vision of the different Why’s is crutial.

2. Also loved the proposal Coach Dave made to offer support to his player: The new learning plan adapted to her “artist mind”.

Another lesson here: Understand your player and when appropriate, make suggestions to offer alternatives.

Coach Jon McCallum shares his experiences

Thanks coach…

My player JH messaged me, saying “Thanks so much for your help! You have been such a wonderful blessing to me!” 

He then went on to say that he wanted to stop the sessions for now. Hah! But I responded, reminding him of his commitment. And then we worked out how to continue by coaching via phone and scheduling shorter sessions if needed.

(Just because it appears that something must end, don’t assume that it does. Challenge it a bit and see what happens. Such a great opportunity to practice being brave and yet caring at the same time. And it worked!)

Insights from the class…

• I am more aware of and inspired to create Profound Belonging with others.
• I love how asking Permission honors the player and also yourself by allowing you to give voice to inklings etc without shoving them onto the player.
• I am reminded of the power of Judgment Free Awareness, to observe the player with care and wonder without the static noise of shoulds and coulds.
• I am reminded of the significance of Play, how it opens possibility and flips challenges from being dreadful to super fun and full of living.

​Being a CoachVille Human Connection Transformation Coach…

You will become a wise soul with deep understanding and awareness of Human Nature.

You will become a “go to guide’ and leader because you foster transformational growth, peak experiences and desired results.

You will become a happier and more playful person. For real.

Center for Coaching Mastery Program

In the Center for Coaching Mastery Program the curriculum is organized with classes that focus on each of the essential superpowers of human nature; so you will gain in depth knowledge.

You will become a master at guiding the Human Journey by unleashing the unique power within each and every individual.

Link to Center for Coaching Mastery Program